Appointments

This morning we went to a PT appointment. Veronica did very well. She had a good conversation with the PT about the three parts of the vestibular system and the work she has to do to get back her balance and get rid of the nasty dizziness.

After the PT appointment, we went for a mile long walk in the SD heat and sun.  We stopped for a simple lunch.  After lunch, Veronica had a follow-up appointment with the doctors.  They are happy with her recovery and encouraged her to keep working.  Veronica is cleared to fly home on Sunday.

Veronica rested while I worked then we took a walk down to the beach.  We walked a long way on the beach and then back up to the house.   Veronica’s fit bit says that she walked 3.35 miles today.  I am going to make brats on the grill now.

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A Week

It has been a week since beautiful wife came out of surgery.  Her resolve has impressed me.  She has come so far.

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Lunch Date

We walked across the street that is in front of the house to Subway.  The street was very busy, and inside Subway, there was a pretty busy lunch crowd.  There were many different conversations going on at one time, and the machines behind the counter were making the usual noises.  It was a lot of sensory input for Veronica to handle.  She did a really good job walking over there and waiting to order.  Every day we add more.  Today has been beach sand and a busy fast-food place.

All The Way To The Beach!

This morning Veronica was determined to get some “real walking” in.  We walked the 7 blocks to the beach and back.  While at the beach she walked a good distance in the sand.  It is very soft sand, which was a good challenge for her.  We are now going to try to cross the busy street and have lunch at Subway.

Incentive

Today I went to CVS to get another round of meds for Veronica.  The insurance company is limiting the number pills that we are allowed to have so I will go back tomorrow.  Frustrating for me, but I understand that many people need this protection.  I decided to walk back to the house.  After walking through the high-end shop area of La Jolla I found this little gem called “Coast Walk Trail”.  I showed the pictures to Veronica and we discussed possibly going over there and giving it a try.

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Looking Forward

After the events of yesterday, this morning is better.  The pain seems to be less sharp this morning.  She has asked for Starbucks.  We are talking more about this coming Sunday, and less about how to get through right now.  Meanwhile, my hero made this for Veronica at the house.

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ER

Last night Veronica’s pain was increasing. We called the on-call doctor.  He talked through the symptoms with us and advised us to increase the dosage of pain medicine Veronica was taking.  He then asked us to call back in the afternoon.  Around 11 this morning the on-call doctor called us back.  He had talked with Veronica’s doctor and they agreed that Veronica’s symptoms suggested the possibility of a serious infection.  He encouraged us to go to the ER, and that he would be there when we arrived.  We went right away assuming that it would take a long time.  We were seen pretty quickly.  There were a CT scan, blood tests, and examinations.  Everything came back fine, and the Doctors felt better about her condition.  After determining that there wasn’t a complication, they worked with Veronica to determine how to manage the pain more effectively.  When in the ER she was given some IV meds that gave her nearly immediate relief.  We are back at the house now, and Veronica is resting.

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She Said Yes!

After talking with the on-call doctor last night, we made a change to Veronica’s pain med.  She was able to sleep a little in the early morning.  She was up an hour before me and was sitting in her chair.  She had a little breakfast and her pain meds.  She did some walking in the house.  The walking in the house gave her a confidence boost.  I asked if she wanted to go for a walk outside.  She said yes, and we walked up the block.  There was sunshine and Sunday morning traffic.  It was a lot to take in.  She did really well.  She is sitting in the recliner resting now.

Out the door.

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Up the block.

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Down the block is the way to the diner, we might try to go that way when the sun goes behind the hills.

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Sleep

Please pray that the pain will subside, and Veronica can sleep.

Choices

After the initial diagnosis, Veronica was presented with a number of possible ways to treat her tumor.  Based on her age and the size of the tumor “wait and see” was taken off of the table by the doctors.  Eventually, the tumor would cause unrecoverable damage inside of her cranium.  We didn’t like the outcomes of radiation.  The likelihood of success wasn’t a strong enough for us.  This left Veronica with the choice between two surgical approaches.  One option allowed for the possibility of keeping her hearing, with the risk of causing chronic migraine headaches.  The other option almost guaranteed the loss of hearing, but gave the doctors the best access to the tumor and probably would have a better chance of getting the whole tumor out.  There was a discussion among the doctors as to which was the best procedure for her tumor because it hadn’t compromised her hearing yet.  They informed us of the likelihood of success and side effects of each option.

I feel that Veronica had chosen early on which procedure that she wanted to undergo.  Her history of migraines kept her for entertaining the idea of trying to save her hearing.

The day before the surgery we had a meeting with the two lead surgeons and after reviewing her MRI again, they both struggled with the idea of taking away her hearing.  It was hard for Veronica to have live through deciding again to sacrifice her hearing.

Veronica put it like this “You have this crappy option,  you have this crappy option, you have this crappy option.  Pick one.”

Dr. Schwartz told Veronica after the surgery that while he was removing the tumor he discovered that he would not have been able to save her hearing with the other approach.